True Sacrifice

Many gays in India who want marry a girl or have already done so, claim to do this on account of a sacrifice for their family, their Moms or Dads. But a close examination of facts reveals that it may not be the reality. For this we will have to examine the nature of ‘true sacrifice’.

A true sacrifice by its very nature is an act of love and not that of compulsion. The person making a sacrifice does or abstain from doing something which ordinarily is quite painful for him but without feeling any significant pain.  A real sacrifice cannot be  made by shooting from someone else’s shoulder.

If one agrees to this definition of a true sacrifice, then he/she can easily comprehend  the reality of the ‘sacrifice’ claimed to have been made by gays who keep enjoying their homosexual-nature and marry a girl one day.

One has to consider this: if their sacrifice is real as they claim, then why do such people defer the renunciation of homosexual behavior till the time of their marriage? Why can’t they do it now? Their families, Moms and Dads, surely not supposed to be happy with this. The answer to these question is simple. This ‘sacrifice’ is a sacrifice by compulsion. When they no longer  can defer their marriage with a girl or when social pressure increases, they suddenly come into the mood of making this ‘sacrifice’.

Consider one more example: Talk to any gay who has married a girl on account of his ‘sacrifice’ for his family. Why does he feel restlessness? Why does he want ‘good-friendship’ with another man? Why does he curse society? Simply because he does not get satisfaction out of the sacrifice he has made. He is just feeling a pain and has grudge for the reality because of which he had to make this sacrifice.

One more thing: All such gay people are doing this sacrifice at the cost of their poor wives. The poor girl doesn’t even know that her husband who is actually a gay constantly cheating her by having an emotional and/or physical relationship with another man.

It is fairly clear that it cannot be a true sacrifice. Although I highly respect and bow before those gays who actually decide to marry a girl out of their love for their family, do not regret doing so (even in their deepest thought) and are loyal to their wives (mentally or physically!). Hats off to such people! But are there any such people? At least I don’t know. If you know then please do let others know as well.