One : What an status a girl enjoys in India when it comes to marriage,
we all know. We can also think of the possibility where she is not even cognizant
of her rights. Therefore, It is not unusual that even after she being told that
her prospective husband lives a sexually colorful life, she provides her
consent for such marriage. But anyone who is willing to take a dispassionate
view can discern that such consent is taken under duress and/or undue influence
and/or ignorance/powerlessness. Unless and until women are granted an equal say
and equal status in the society, their consent in an arranged marriage shall
always remain questionable especially when they know that the person they are
going to marry believes in polygamy (may be a polygamous gay / straight /
bisexual – to me all are on same footings).
(But the fact of matter is – in most of cases they don’t
know‼)
Two : How does it become obligatory for me as a gay, to accept
your unjust enrichment at the cost of an innocent (if not poor) girl whom you
are going to exploit just to demonstrate to the society that you are a ‘normal
man’. As a gay you can expect me to promote the cause of equality and justice –
and not your personal misdeed. Sex and Love can be separate according to one
interpretation but that too only when this principle is equally made applicable
in case of women as well (I am sure that you cannot allow your wife the same privilege
– no offense involved) .
Three : If a person thinks that ‘poor parents’ must be satisfied
by marrying a girl (and simultaneously having discreet extra marital affairs
with one or more boys) then I find it defective on two grounds: A) It smacks of
exploitation of a human being to satisfy some other i.e. a narrow minded self
fulfillment and B) It is a super hypocrisy at work where you throw a piece of
live meat in front of your parents and claim a moral high in your mind by
making a sacrifice (but actually not suppressing your inner urge by not contacting
anyone for gay sex which could have hurt your parents.)
Four : I am no certifying authority of moral world but you
yourself are doing so by claiming a certificate which entitles you to all kind
of cheating on a woman who is married to you provided you can satisfy her ‘physically’.
This is merely a manifestation of your mediaeval mindset whereby women are
considered nothing more than a chattel which has no emotional needs whatsoever.
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