Potential Criminal

A 28 years old gay man started chatting with me on Facebook for soliciting sex. I decided to oblige by answering him.

First, on being asked “Are you a gay?”, he said yes.

Then on being asked about his future plans, he said that he had not decided yet.

Then changed his stand on further questioning by saying, “I would do whatever I like. At present I feel that I would marry boy.”

My next question was, “Then why are you looking for sex and not for lifelong relationship?”

He replied, “Because the time has not come yet.”

“Is there any guarantee that your stand will not change in future?” I enquired. 

He replied, “At least since last 2 years, I have the same thing in my mind. Because you don’t find people looking for lifelong relationship on Facebook. Therefore I want to enjoy here. You too enjoy.”

I feel that such people are potential criminals (yes I call them POTENTIAL criminals) who can never be sure of their actions. Tomorrow, even if this guy enters into a relationship, his partner can never feel secure. Such people want to go with flow, i.e. nothing could be expected from them which requires even smallest amount of courage. They would ultimately cause hurt to their truthful partners and hence the terminology which I used.